Life
The Truth About Peer Pressure
By Christopher Duff
“There is a serious problem that our young people are facing today, and I believe that there is more we can be doing to support them. The problem is peer pressure. I am sure many of you have heard of the ‘Say No To Drugs’ Campaigns and similar things to them. And I think they are great, and have had incredible success. However, I feel as though many of these campaigns, and many of the solutions we try to offer our young people focus on a particular area. But I am now beginning to explore other alternatives. And I’m beginning to believe the solution should be centered around changing a mindset.
Lately, I have been doing a lot of research about the Nazis, Hitler and that whole time period. The reason being is because it is just so hard for me to wrap my mind around how it got as far as it did.
One of the tactics the Nazi group used was formulating a group called Hitlers Youth. Ages ranged from 14-18. And then had another division for 10-14. He recruited when they were young. A period that really lays a foundation to who they become. And it really began to make me think. How could this man and this group get a young person to give up their parents to the soldiers as a young girl named Elisabeth Vetter did?
And as I began to read more stories, I began to realize something far deeper. When you remove or inhibit a young persons or anyone’s, ability to ‘think critically’, you open the door to a bad situation. I remember a conversation that I had with a young girl, 18, sometime last year who had tried cocaine for the first time. I asked her why she tried it, and her answer got me more upset than the fact she even tried it. Her response was: “my friend said the feeling is amazing!” So I asked her “well did you even check out what it does to your body?” Her response to this question was” “Nope. I trusted my friend.” I remember her giggling afterwards. And that was it. I was furious because in a generation where we have a world of information at our fingertips, our decision making process is still so dependent on other people. And yes for some of you reading you’re probably saying “Oh I would never do cocaine, ever.” But you missed the point. It’s not “what” you are doing. It’s “why” you’re doing it.
Because I love business, I began to think of things from this perspective. When a business wants you to purchase a product, think about what they do; market research, spend thousands of dollars in some cases millions, use graphics and images, get it in your face, trigger emotion, all to get you to buy into what they have to offer. But what’s the most effective form of advertising? Word of mouth!! And look how it only took her friend’ vague recommendation to get her to try a drug. How do you combat that?
I believe the issue is that we strip our young people of their ability to think critically. From parenting, to school, to the workplace and then we complain when they blindly follow the new trend or do what their friends say. Look at it like this, when they blindly follow what their parents say, it’s “obedience”, when they blindly follow what their teachers say it’s “obedience”, when they blindly follow what their employers say, it’s “obedience”, when they blindly follow what the governments say its “obedience”. But when they blindly follow what their friends say, it’s “peer pressure”. How can we expect any other result when in every aspect of their lives, they are required to follow blindly?
Obedience is great! But why can I not respectfully challenge decisions made? Or someone else’s opinion? That’s a part of me thinking critically.
